Out of the blue, my sister called me at work yesterday. Â Everyone at the bench area turned to me as I was speaking in Cantonese. Â Yes, I am bilingual. Â If you are to count my half baked Spanish, I am quasi-multilingual.
Quickly, I moved into a phone booth as I battled – mentally speaking – on how to react to my sister’s for lack of a better word, ‘ambush’. Â An ambush with a good intend no doubt. Â Perhaps as one gets older, one prefers to plan ahead. Â Like my mother who called me while I was watching The Voice on TV half an hour ago. Â She asked, “What time are you going to arrive in Hong Kong?” Â I shrugged and looked at Cynthia for help. Â Then my mother asked, “Which day and what time are you leaving Hong Kong?” Â Even Cynthia, my travel organizer, struggled to remember the booking information.
Back to yesterday, inside the phone booth, my sister proposed that we should – in a few hours’ time – have a reunion dinner and honor the tradition of Mid-Autumn Festival. Â Jolly good. Â But what would happen to the defrost meat that we were going to cook in the evening? Â And my home was in a total mess. Â Time, yes we need time to plan doing something, or even doing nothing.
Eventually, we worked through the logistics. Â Our close to two years old niece Bethany is adorable. Â When she says hi and bye, those moments melt our hearts. Â And she is able to address me properly in Cantonese! Â I have been waiting for this moment for months. Â Months! Â My sister said that they may not need to send Bethany for a music appreciation class. Â They can send her to my home instead. Â I tried to play guitar with her. Â Getting a sustained attention from a kid for more than half a minute is hard. Â Asking her not to yank the strings off my beloved Spanish guitar is even harder. Â I am a patience man. Â In my vision, I am still seeing Bethany playing a grand piano, rather than a Spanish guitar.
After dinner, we popped by a playground in our condo. Â To be frank, I have not stepped inside the playground after all these years of living here. Â The noticeboard says that the playground is strictly for children under 12 years of age. Â Since Bethany was with us, we happily stepped into the playground for the first time.
Our niece seemed to have a good time. Â The amount of time parents have to spent in order to play and to take care of their kids is mind blowing. Â I salute all the parents in this world, including mine. Â Mark, if you are reading this, I salute you too as you are going to have your little one later this year. Â Years of repetitive dailies await. Â Speaking as such, our band’s guitarist’s newborn should be due soon. Â I am seeing babies spawning all around me.
In last year’s Mid-Autumn Festival, Cynthia and I were in Hong Kong crawling through the museums. Â Our trip to Lamma Island seems so far away. Â How time flies. Â How time flies indeed.
